all alone in the big city? whether it’s first of fiftieth move, our principles for connection can help you make friends and build a well rounded life.
Read Moreyou know those couples and throuples that just emerge from nowhere out of concerts and video game nights? yeah. friendship can really start off those romantic connections - and keeps them durable.
Read Moreguest post from Rhaina Cohen on asking better questions, the vulnerability paradox, and what actually makes people want to befriend — or date — you.
Read Morewe can all end up in conversational and relational auto pilot, but there are some relatively simple tricks to getting out of the rut and into deeper connection
Read Moreover our lifetimes and across our relationships, we play many roles. we explore the strengths, weaknesses, and impacts of caretaker and peacemaker roles on our connections with others
Read MoreSkip the Small Talk’s own Ashley Kirsner sat down with Love Letters podcast to discuss the important of structure and support to make vulnerability possible.
Read Morethe little things in life - and our own tendency to hang back - can make it hard to turn our acquaintances into real friends. but just like growing orchids, we can take the right tools and right conditions, and grow something beautiful.
Read Moreour sense of awkwardness can hold us back from going out to social events on our own. Here are some strategies to try to get yourself out the door
Read MoreIt’s surprisingly hard to meet people in your 20s and 30s—especially if bars aren’t your thing. Here are some options that make it a lot easier.
Read Morewe’ve been hearing a lot that folks feel lonely in a crowd, or even with a friend. we take a look at this common problem.
feeling lost in a crowd may not mean what you think.
and there’s plenty you can do about it to find your way to deeper connections.
Read MoreJuggling our lives and relationships can lead to emotional burnout. We look at causes of emotional burnout and bring forward 4 strategies for approaching healthy relating without making the burnout worse.
Read MoreJuggling our lives and relationships can lead to emotional burnout. We look at causes of emotional burnout and bring forward 4 strategies for approaching healthy relating without making the burnout worse.
Read MoreHow do you build adult friendships amid all the…adulting? the key is balance, persistence, and being true to what you actually want! These are skills learned and re-learned over and over again in life. This week we expand on these three tips to help you go deeper with new and existing friendships.
Read MoreWhy do relationships fall apart, or fail to get off the ground? One reason can be a failure to create or maintain emotional safety. The best partner dancing requires trust, practice, and intuitive communication. By making space, making time, and making choices we can create the conditions for flourishing relationships
Read Moregood indicators that it’s time to look at our unspoken expectations are when we notice a repeated behavior (or lack thereof) in a relationship that leads us to feel: misunderstood, confused, disappointed, ignored, resentful, or frustrated.
If we don’t examine those feelings and assumptions, over time the pattern can feel bigger and more overwhelming, or erode the strong foundation we once had. We offer some suggestions for understanding our unspoken expectations and 3 tips for talking about them.
Read Morethis week we play with the concept of romance and encourage us to shift our understanding of romance: what it is, who it’s for, and how we build it. We offer 3 ways you can build romance into any kind of connection.
Read MoreMisunderstanding, conflict, and tension are normal parts of relating. If we approach them with compassion, honesty, and curiosity they can be and are important parts of growing as people and deepening our relationships. Try these 3 questions the next time you find yourself in a rocky conversation.
Read MoreWhile you may not be snowed in from where you’re reading, winter can be a great season for slowing down and building deeper connections with new and olds friends and crushes.
Whether you love the cold or really feel that Seasonal Affective Disorder (or both) each winter, it can be harder to think of things to do when it’s dark, cold, and Netflix acquires the West Wing - so here are 5 suggestions for winter fun and connection.
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