Posts tagged meet new people
How to Make Friends in a New City When You Don’t Know Anyone

all alone in the big city? whether it’s first of fiftieth move, our principles for connection can help you make friends and build a well rounded life.

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Why So Many Good Relationships Start With Friendship

you know those couples and throuples that just emerge from nowhere out of concerts and video game nights? yeah. friendship can really start off those romantic connections - and keeps them durable.

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the unexpected behavior that makes people want to know you

guest post from Rhaina Cohen on asking better questions, the vulnerability paradox, and what actually makes people want to befriend — or date — you.

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How to Stop Having the Same Surface-Level Conversations Over and Over

we can all end up in conversational and relational auto pilot, but there are some relatively simple tricks to getting out of the rut and into deeper connection

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Relationship Roles: How Patterns Like the Caretaker or Peacemaker Shape Our Connections

over our lifetimes and across our relationships, we play many roles. we explore the strengths, weaknesses, and impacts of caretaker and peacemaker roles on our connections with others

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Men On Apps Don’t Ask Questions (Because We All Need Help to Be Vulnerable)

Skip the Small Talk’s own Ashley Kirsner sat down with Love Letters podcast to discuss the important of structure and support to make vulnerability possible.

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Why It’s So Hard to Turn Acquaintances Into Actual Friends (and What Helps)

the little things in life - and our own tendency to hang back - can make it hard to turn our acquaintances into real friends. but just like growing orchids, we can take the right tools and right conditions, and grow something beautiful.

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How to Go to Social Events Alone (Without Feeling Awkward)

our sense of awkwardness can hold us back from going out to social events on our own. Here are some strategies to try to get yourself out the door

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Where to Meet New People in Your 20s and 30s (That Aren’t Just Bars)

It’s surprisingly hard to meet people in your 20s and 30s—especially if bars aren’t your thing. Here are some options that make it a lot easier.

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Why You Don’t Feel Close to People (Even When You’re Around Them)

we’ve been hearing a lot that folks feel lonely in a crowd, or even with a friend. we take a look at this common problem.

feeling lost in a crowd may not mean what you think.

and there’s plenty you can do about it to find your way to deeper connections.

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How to Build Deeper Adult Friendships Without Feeling Awkward

How do you build adult friendships amid all the…adulting? the key is balance, persistence, and being true to what you actually want! These are skills learned and re-learned over and over again in life. This week we expand on these three tips to help you go deeper with new and existing friendships.

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How to Create Emotional Safety in Relationships (Without Forcing Vulnerability)

Why do relationships fall apart, or fail to get off the ground? One reason can be a failure to create or maintain emotional safety. The best partner dancing requires trust, practice, and intuitive communication. By making space, making time, and making choices we can create the conditions for flourishing relationships

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Unspoken Expectations in Relationships: How They Create Distance (and How to Talk About Them)

good indicators that it’s time to look at our unspoken expectations are when we notice a repeated behavior (or lack thereof) in a relationship that leads us to feel: misunderstood, confused, disappointed, ignored, resentful, or frustrated.

If we don’t examine those feelings and assumptions, over time the pattern can feel bigger and more overwhelming, or erode the strong foundation we once had. We offer some suggestions for understanding our unspoken expectations and 3 tips for talking about them.

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3 Questions to Guide You Through Rocky Conversations

Misunderstanding, conflict, and tension are normal parts of relating. If we approach them with compassion, honesty, and curiosity they can be and are important parts of growing as people and deepening our relationships. Try these 3 questions the next time you find yourself in a rocky conversation.

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5 Winter Activities to Build Deeper, More Meaningful Connections

While you may not be snowed in from where you’re reading, winter can be a great season for slowing down and building deeper connections with new and olds friends and crushes.

Whether you love the cold or really feel that Seasonal Affective Disorder (or both) each winter, it can be harder to think of things to do when it’s dark, cold, and Netflix acquires the West Wing - so here are 5 suggestions for winter fun and connection.

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