Posts in Social Connection
Why So Many Good Relationships Start With Friendship

you know those couples and throuples that just emerge from nowhere out of concerts and video game nights? yeah. friendship can really start off those romantic connections - and keeps them durable.

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the unexpected behavior that makes people want to know you

guest post from Rhaina Cohen on asking better questions, the vulnerability paradox, and what actually makes people want to befriend — or date — you.

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How to Stop Having the Same Surface-Level Conversations Over and Over

we can all end up in conversational and relational auto pilot, but there are some relatively simple tricks to getting out of the rut and into deeper connection

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Relationship Roles: How Patterns Like the Caretaker or Peacemaker Shape Our Connections

over our lifetimes and across our relationships, we play many roles. we explore the strengths, weaknesses, and impacts of caretaker and peacemaker roles on our connections with others

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Men On Apps Don’t Ask Questions (Because We All Need Help to Be Vulnerable)

Skip the Small Talk’s own Ashley Kirsner sat down with Love Letters podcast to discuss the important of structure and support to make vulnerability possible.

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Why It’s So Hard to Turn Acquaintances Into Actual Friends (and What Helps)

the little things in life - and our own tendency to hang back - can make it hard to turn our acquaintances into real friends. but just like growing orchids, we can take the right tools and right conditions, and grow something beautiful.

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How to Go to Social Events Alone (Without Feeling Awkward)

our sense of awkwardness can hold us back from going out to social events on our own. Here are some strategies to try to get yourself out the door

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Where to Meet New People in Your 20s and 30s (That Aren’t Just Bars)

It’s surprisingly hard to meet people in your 20s and 30s—especially if bars aren’t your thing. Here are some options that make it a lot easier.

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Talking to Strangers: The Science of Why It’s Less Awkward Than You Think

Talking to strangers often feels awkward or risky — but research tells a different story. In my conversation with social psychologist Dr. Gillian Sandstrom, we explore rejection, the liking gap, and why we consistently underestimate the benefits of talking to strangers.

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