Talking to Strangers: The Science of Why It’s Less Awkward Than You Think

Talking to strangers often feels awkward or risky — but research tells a different story. In my conversation with social psychologist Dr. Gillian Sandstrom, we explore rejection, the liking gap, and why we consistently underestimate the benefits of talking to strangers.

Social ConnectionAshley KirsnerMarch 8, 2026talking to strangers, conversation skills, fear of rejection, liking gap, making friends, social connection, social anxiety reductionComment

How to Make New Friends (And Keep the Old!)

As the saying goes: Make new friends, but keep the old.

BlogAllison ScharmannApril 24, 2025friendship, friends, friendship advice, making friends, social connection, friendComment

How to Put Yourself Out There

Take advantage of the extra Vitamin D and open yourself up to new connections. You never know who you might meet!

Allison ScharmannMay 23, 2024friends, friendship, dating, relationships, making friends, meeting people, conversation, conversations, connections, communication, romance Comment

5 Ways To Make Friends In A New Place

You started a new job. You’re going to school. You needed a change of pace. Whatever the reason, you’re embarking on the next chapter of your life in a new and exciting place. All you need now are some friends to celebrate with!

Allison ScharmannFebruary 23, 2023friendship, friends, making friends, moving, new city, how to make friends, how to make friends as an adult

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